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Clergy Sexual Abuse Survivors Seek Support in the Wake of the Pope’s Visit

Sunday, April 20, 2008

The pope’s visit has been the trigger for a significant number of survivors of childhood sexual abuse by Catholic clergy to seek support, many for the first time.

The following email message was sent to a number of media outlets this past week by the Voice of the Faithful’s Survivor Support Working Group.

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As the intense media coverage of Pope Benedict’s visit to the United States increases, previously silent survivors are coming out of the shadows, but apparently not to the Church, according to many of them.

Triggered by images of Catholic bishops who were complicit in their sexual molestation, the lack of specific focus on their suffering by Pope Benedict XVI in his statements on the plane, and the Pope’s refusal to respond to their requests to meet with him, they are turning to each other. Pope Benedict referred to the suffering of the Church and him personally, but not that of the survivors.

“We have seen a significant increase in calls to our office by survivors who have never broken their silence before,” says David Clohessy, executive director of SNAP (Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests).

The Toll-Free SNAP Hot Line Number is: 1-877-762-7432

Road to Recovery, another established support group headed by Rev. Robert Hoatson, himself a survivor, is likewise experiencing a higher volume of calls. “We heard from both ‘new’ survivors who want to begin healing, and current clients who are anxious, panicky, depressed, and outraged.”

The national Survivor Support Working Group (SSWG) of Voice of the Faithful released a statement yesterday acknowledging the “depth and severity” of their suffering. It recognized the highly visual symbolism and ceremony of Catholic liturgies with the built-in potential for flashbacks.

“With full blown and continuous coverage of the papal visit, anxiety within survivors is heightened and we need to be sensitive to the needs and feelings of those who have been sexually assaulted and marginalized by the Catholic Church,” said Kristine Ward, Chair of the SSWG. “These contacts are courageous acts and we must recognize their significance with care and concern.” The response was immediate and gratifying: “I cannot thank you enough for your words of compassion and support. I didn’t think the Pope’s visit would affect me. I was wrong…..Thank you for your words, it helps the pain…..thank you, thank you, thank you…..” are among the many messages received.

All members of the Steering Committee of SSWG have volunteered to be points of contact to the survivor groups as leaders of SNAP and Road to Recovery juggle media events, travel, and the emotional toll of exclusion during these days of Pope Benedict’s visit.

Survivor leaders — national, regional and local — believe it is their duty to be the face of Christ to their wounded brothers and sisters. Their outreach is largely unacknowledged by church leaders and Catholics in general, who need to appreciate the impact of celebrations at which survivors feel unwelcome.

Pope Benedict could still set an example of leadership by watching an hour with survivor leaders who desire only to tell their stories to him directly and earnestly.

The National Review Board criticized US bishops for not meeting with survivors, and the bishops themselves acknowledged that omission.* Survivors need pastoral outreach from the Shepherd who speaks of hope, and ask Pope Benedict respectfully to listen to their truth in humility.

* www.bishop-accountability.org/usccb/causesandcontext/2004-02-27-CC-Report.pdf p. 127 of 158

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Help for the wounded:

Fr. Bob Hoatson (survivor) and Fr. Ken Lasch 862-368-2800

Bob Schwiderski (survivor) 952-471-3422

Lisa Kendzior SSWG 817-773-5907

Kristine Ward SSWG 520-404-2489


SNAP Hot Line: 1-877-762-7432

Contact Information

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Kristine Ward, Ohio 937-272-0308

Rev. Robert Hoatson, New York 862-368-2800

Michael Sweatt, Maine 207 831 3791

Steve Sheehan, Massachusetts 617-319-0477

James Jenkins, California 510-599-5173

Marjorie Bean, Massachusetts 781-648-4646

Tom Byrnes, Ohio 216-295-0817

Bob Schwiderski, Minnesota 952-471-3422

Lisa Kendzior, Texas 817-773-5907

Chuck Miller, Maryland 302-234-1519

Frank Douglas, Arizona 520-404-2489

Ed Friedl, Ohio 330-499-6842

Carolyn Disco, New Hampshire 917-620-8172

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More Stories on the Pope’s Visit

Sunday, April 20, 2008

The following stories were emailed to me by SNAP’s Peter Isely.

Thanks, Peter.

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A few stories grabbed from the last day or so…Peter

http://www.ny1.com/ny1/content/index.jsp?stid=8&aid=80675

Manhattan Papal Visit 2008: Clergy Sex Abuse Victims Protest For More Legal Punishment Of Abusers

April 18, 2008


Clergy sex abuse victims gathered outside St. Patrick’s Cathedral Friday, warning Catholics to stay vigilant about reporting abuse cases.

Representatives from the Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests, or SNAP, said the sexual abuse crisis in the Catholic Church is not over.

They feared Thursday’s meeting between victims and the Pope will give Catholics a false sense of security.

“We’re here today to implore the pope to force bishops here in the US to send any priest who has abused a child to law enforcement and to make sure that any bishop who covers up for sexual abuse is reprimand and removed,” said Joelle Casteix, regional director of SNAP Southwest.

The group called the Pope’s recognition of the abuse a step forward, but said more needs to be done.

“We think yesterday’s meeting with victims and the Pope gives a green light to Catholics in the United States and around the world to start coming forward and reporting crimes against children,” said Peter Isley, a SNAP National Board member. “Anything that they know about theses crimes. We think it’s letting Catholics know that their pope is now telling them, -this is real.”

SNAP also suggests their members speak at church gatherings to share tips and signs to keep children from being abused.

http://www.nytimes.com/2008/04/18/nyregion/18victims.html?em&ex=1208664000&en=94c53df312954be5&ei=5087%0A

Abuse Victims Warily Consider Pope’s Words

By RICHARD G. JONES and ABBY GOODNOUGH

Published: April 18, 2008

Jim Hackett waited 30 years before going public in 2005 with his horrific account of being sexually abused by a priest who eventually admitted that he groped adolescent boys. The priest was placed on leave, yet found a way to continue as a clergyman.

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Tim Echausse, director of the Long Island chapter of the Survivors Network of Those Abused by Priests, said the pope deserved credit for raising the issue of sexual abuse.

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Becky Ianni, also a victim, said the visit reminded her of her alienation from her religion: “It’s just so glaring because everyone is so excited. I wish I could be excited.”

As Mr. Hackett anticipated Pope Benedict XVI’s first visit to the United States this week, he waited for an indication that the church would do more to help abuse victims like him and to punish their abusers. And after the pope’s surprise visit with a group of victims in Washington on Thursday, Mr. Hackett is still waiting for Benedict to publicly articulate specific steps the church will take to help prevent others from suffering the way he did.

“It’s all just window dressing,” said Mr. Hackett, 44, a computer programmer who lives in Cheshire, Conn. “You have to look at his actions. He was pressured into doing something.”

As the pope arrives in New York City on Friday, Mr. Hackett and other abuse victims will stage a vigil outside a SoHo art gallery displaying a new exhibit of photographs of them. While Benedict addresses the United Nations on Friday, Robert Costello, who said he was abused by a priest in West Roxbury, Mass., starting at age 10, plans to read aloud the names of victims.

Mr. Costello, who is 46 and lives in Norwood, Mass., questioned why Thursday’s meeting was with only a handful of victims and why it was not publicized ahead of time.

“I think it’s very nice for those five victims, if they found healing or encouragement,” he said. “But for the rest of the survivors, one of the first questions is, ‘Why wasn’t it me?’ ”

Few have greeted Benedict’s arrival with as much ambivalence as the victims of the priest sexual abuse scandal, which sent tremors through across the United States six years ago, with aftershocks still resonating.

Some victims, like Mr. Hackett, have largely ignored the pope’s visit and say they are dubious about his public pronouncements about how deeply he has been affected by the crisis, even questioning the motives behind his meeting on Thursday. Others have struck a more conciliatory tone, saying that Benedict should be credited for addressing the scandal far more directly than others in the church hierarchy.

“I’m disappointed, but I also have to give Benedict his due,” said Tim Echausse, director of the Long Island chapter of the Survivors Network of Those Abused by Priests, a national victims group.

Almost all say that more important than the pope’s words are his actions, criticizing what they say is the lack of a concrete plan to purge pedophiles from the church and discipline bishops and other leaders who have protected them.

“It’s a small but overdue positive step if it leads to action,” David Clohessy, a leader of the survivors network, said of the private meeting with five victims from the Boston area on Thursday. “Talk can produce change or complacency.

“Despite the soothing words and promises of reform,” Mr. Clohessy added, “the cold, hard fact is that not a single kid is safer today because of what’s been said this week.”

Mr. Clohessy says new cases of abuse by priests still are being reported regularly, despite the no-tolerance decree issued by the United States Conference of Bishops in Dallas in 2002. “They don’t have to live up to their principles because no one is able to sanction them,” Mr. Clohessy said of the bishops.

No one, that is, except for Benedict, whose public comments about the scandal have focused more on his personal perspective of the crisis than a specific plan to address it. In interviews this week, several victims of abuse said they hoped that he would go further than such pronouncements.

“He’s been so troubled by this? I feel for him deeply,” another victim, Patricia Anne Cahill, 55, said sarcastically of the sentiment the pope has repeated several times during his visit this week. “Let him have lunch with some of us. He’ll see what being troubled is like.”

After Thursday’s meeting, Ms. Cahill said: “The question I have is: How were they chosen? Why wasn’t it put out there as a random sampling? Maybe they’re saying what the church wants to hear and what the public wants to hear.”

Ms. Cahill, who said that her uncle repeatedly raped her during her childhood, invoking his priest’s collar as a way to keep her silent, is also among the 30 victims featured in the exhibit of photographs in SoHo, titled “Crosses,” by Carmine Galasso, a photojournalist at The Record of Hackensack, N.J.

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Jim Hackett, who was sexually abused by a priest as a child, said he wanted specific steps taken to prevent such abuse, not just expressions of regret from the pope.

The exhibit, and a book by the same name, includes haunting portraits of victims returning to the churches, rectories and other locations where they said they were abused.

“I’m not a holy roller; I don’t really practice my faith,” said Mr. Galasso, who grew up Catholic. “But if you’re born a Catholic, you’re Catholic. And this was something that spoke to me professionally and personally.”

Several of the victims in the photographs, as well as others around the country, awaited the pope’s visit with deep ambivalence — and reacted with deep suspicion to his meeting with victims. Susan Renehan, 59, who said she was sexually abused by a priest for a number of years as a child in New Jersey, questioned whether an honest dialogue took place.

“I’ve been in touch with many survivors over the years,” said Ms. Renehan, who is active in the New England chapter of the survivors network. “I can’t think of one who fits the criteria of being polite enough to meet with the pope.”

She went on: “The pope talks about how he feels ashamed and all of this.

“But we are plagued by lawyers working for the Vatican and for the church to make sure they fight tooth and nail to make sure, unless forced to, they don’t have to be responsible for what happened. It’s sort of a hypocritical conversation they have going. If you criticize it, they say, ‘She’s just angry.’ ”

Rodney Ford, whose son, Gregory, reached a settlement with the Archdiocese of Boston in 2004 relating to his abuse by the Rev. Paul Shanley from 1983 to 1989 at a church in Newton, Mass., said of the meeting: “I see this as him trying to raise money for the Catholic Church. It’s a political statement.”

Asked why he thought his son and others who have been harshly critical of church leaders had not been invited, Mr. Ford said: “They chose people who were going to be more appropriate.”

Mr. Hackett, who was one of 43 abuse victims to share $22 million as part of an agreement to settle abuse claims with the Archdiocese of Hartford, was similarly suspicious of Benedict’s public pronouncements about the sex abuse scandal this week.

“He has a history of pooh-poohing it — now he’s taking a whole different line,” said Mr. Hackett, who has distanced himself from the church. “I wonder about the change of heart. He probably realizes that a lot of people are walking away from the church. Now, he’s just trying to stop the bleeding.”

For victims who have struggled to reconcile with the church, the pope’s visit can be particularly painful. “To me, the pope points out that I don’t have a church,” said Becky Ianni, 50, a sex abuse victim and a mother of four who lives in Virginia. “It reminds me that there is an empty spot. It’s just so glaring because everyone is so excited. I wish I could be excited.”

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The pope needs to punish church leaders who fail to act against abusive priests, says a survivor.

Daniel Stone

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Updated: 6:07 PM ET Apr 18, 2008

On Thursday afternoon, after celebrating mass with 46,000 Roman Catholics in Washington, D.C., Pope Benedict XVI made an unannounced stop. He returned to the papal nunciature at the Vatican Embassy where he met with six victims of clergy sexual abuse. It was the fourth time this week he explicitly confronted the sexual abuse that rocked the American church, starting in Boston in 2002.

Benedict was joined in the private meeting by Cardinal Sean O’Malley, who took over the Boston diocese after Cardinal Bernard Law was forced to step down after he came under attack for mishandling abuse cases in his diocese. The message the pontiff delivered was described by people there as one of hope, during which the survivors aired their concerns, prayed with him and were reportedly seen in tears following the brief session.

Though the meeting was appreciated—even expected—by victims-rights groups, they say that Benedict’s approach to the issue thus far of the issue has been largely ceremonial. The pope, they say, has not done enough to offer concrete plans for how to effectively punish the perpetrators of abuse and the church officials that harbor them. Barbara Blaine, president of the Survivor’s Network of those Abused by Priests (SNAP), spoke with NEWSWEEK’s Daniel Stone about her group’s reaction to how Benedict has so far confronted the issue. Excerpts:

NEWSWEEK: What was your general reaction to him meeting with the victims of clergy abuse Thursday?
Barbara Blaine:
We heard that was going to happen, so we weren’t surprised. But we think it would be far better if, rather than engage in political maneuvers, he would discipline the wrongdoers and thereby maybe protect children. We applaud the courage of those victims to speak up, and we think it takes courage—but it’s also extremely painful. What we’re hoping for is that the Holy Father would actually take some action.

What kinds of protections and policies are in place now?
The bishops have committed themselves to remove predators when allegations are made and the allegations seem credible. The problem is that we’re finding instances of predators being allowed to remain in ministry in spite of allegations. Another thing is that bishops failed to follow the system in which the National Review Board, which is affiliated with the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops, evaluates each diocese annually to see how each diocese is doing. The dioceses have varied in how they’ve put into place policy provisions, and I think 11 or 12 of dioceses were found to not be in compliance. Of all places, the archdiocese of Boston was not in compliance with a provision that says how they’re supposed to protect the children and stay safe. And yet in spite of all that, the pope had [Cardinal] O’Malley yesterday at the meeting with the victims. Of all the places where you’d think they’d be bending over backward to protect children and ensure their safety, that’s a diocese where they’re found not to be in compliance. There are no consequences in place now for any bishop or church leader who fails to follow the policies. And we keep finding examples where they do violate policies. The policies are empty promises if there’re no consequences for those that don’t follow them.

So what changes would you support to address the lack of consequences?
We think the enablers—the church leaders who engage in the cover up and enabling of perpetrators—should be punished. Bishops or church leaders who are found to knowingly lead a cover-up should be fired. They shouldn’t be allowed to remain as bishops. The religious superiors around the world who are harboring fugitive priests and giving them sanctuary should be forced to resign, as well.

How could Benedict have approached the topic more effectively than he has thus far?
When the Holy Father met Wednesday night with the U.S. bishops, rather than congratulating them and telling them what a terrific job they’re doing, he should have singled out those with the most egregious track record and said how they should be punished. We believe that would have sent a chilling message, and then other church leaders would follow that directive.

How do you think the church can confront the issue of abuse before it becomes a problem, as opposed to punishing perpetrators and enablers after the abuse has already happened?
Well, the Catholic Church has always had pedophile priests and probably [always] will. The question is whether or not people who enable and cover up for them will be punished. That’s the crux of the problem. It’s not [for] the individual predators—they have a specific compulsion and addiction, and we know that deterrence doesn’t work for that kind of criminal. But deterrents do work for church supervisors and bishops.
The other thing is that the bishops have a policy in place with lofty words, but there are absolutely no consequences to those who don’t follow the policy, so it’s largely meaningless. So [the bishops] say that someone involved in abuse will never be allowed in ministry again, [but] we keep finding examples of how these predators are involved in ministries still. It’s comparable to the speed limit. If there are speed-limit signs on the highway but there’s never a police car giving a ticket, most citizens would never follow the speed limit. A policy has an impact if there’s a consequence for not following the rules.

What would be appropriate discipline?
Either firing or demoting or sanctioning them. [The pope] surely knows how to sanction them. Some of the commentators were saying “This is such a large maneuver for the Holy Father. He didn’t even have to say anything. This is sufficient.” And to that I would say ‘No, words aren’t enough. Nothing can restore our innocence or our childhood and that leaves us feeling helpless and hopeless.’ But what we’ve learned is that it becomes empowering for us if we can prevent others from being abused. So if the Holy Father wants to help us as victims, he needs to put in measures that actually protect kids.

When he addressed the issue this week, did the pope re-open the wounds for all the victims?
Well, at this moment, we’re inundated with many more calls from new victims and family members of victims. But we have an extensive network of survivors that knows how to handle the volume of new cases.

So since his message, as you say, was more ceremonial, would it have been better if he didn’t approach the topic at all?
He was forced to say something. If he’s going to come to America, he had to say something, but we’re hoping that he does more. He has the authority to act and make consequences and we’re still waiting for him to do that.

What about priests who oversaw cases that occurred decades ago? Should they receive punishment, which would include stripping them of their pensions?
We’re far less interested in punishing actions like that. We’re not a vengeful people. I don’t think any victims wish anything ill toward the individual predators. It’s not the individual predators. But church leaders enable them. That’s who we want to see punished. If you remove bishops from their Good start, but look for follow-through

By Margery Eagan  |   Friday, April 18, 2008  |  http://www.bostonherald.com  |  Columnists

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“It was the right thing to do and it’s also brilliant public relations. The question is what was Benedict’s motive. I think we’ll know in time.”

So said church scandal expert Anne Barrett Doyle yesterday, expressing perfectly my own reaction yesterday to news that Pope Benedict XVI had met with a handful of Boston survivors.

How will we know the pope’s motivation? By his follow-through. Whether hearing survivors’ stories first-hand will cause him to act against those American bishops who allowed this to go on and on. Whether he’ll remove Bernard Cardinal Law from his position in Rome or John B. McCormack, bishop of Manchester, N.H., for the past 10 years.

At least two of the five survivors who met with the pope yesterday were victims of predator priest Joseph Birmingham, who molested dozens of young boys in the Boston area beginning in the 1960s and whose abuse, many Birmingham victims say, was not only known but covered up by McCormack.

Bernie McDaid, who met with the pope yesterday, was molested by Birmingham as an 11-year-old altar boy at St. James Church in Salem. Olan Horne, who met with the pope, was molested by Birmingham at St. Michael’s Church in Lowell.

Bishop McCormack went to seminary with Birmingham and lived in the rectory with him at the Salem church. That is where Paul Cultrera, the victim whose story is at the center of the scandal documentary “Hand of God,” said Birmingham began molesting him when he was a high school freshman.

That is where James Hogan described sexual abuse continuing over four years in the late 1960s when he was in grammar school at St. James parochial school. Hogan said Birmingham would call him out of class to molest him, or take him to his rectory bedroom. Hogan has also said repeatedly that he knows McCormack saw him there, and did nothing about it.

Anne Barrett Doyle works for Bishop-Accountability.org, the most comprehensive Web site documenting the church scandal in Boston and around the country.

If you visit it, you can read survivors’ accounts of what hundreds of priests, and many bishops, did to them when they were 8, 10, 12 years old. You can read about mothers calling the rectory – even traveling to the old chancery in Brighton to meet with McCormack himself, who later became a top Law aide, to report abusive priests to him.

In their the-church-is-all-powerful naivete, these mothers expected McCormack to do something. They expected him to call police. They expected the abusers to get arrested, go to jail.

You can read a letter one frantic father wrote to McCormack asking if he should fear that his son, too, was a victim of Birmingham. No, no, came McCormack’s reply. Don’t worry.

You can read the survivors’ own words about running from the room after this priest or that priest molested them. They were scared and crying but too petrified to tell. So they kept their secrets for years.

When you read all this, you understand that listening to victims, as Benedict did yesterday, is good and right and an excellent start, but it is only a start. To fix the Catholic Church in Boston, those who knew what happened and kept silent must now pay a steep price.

Pope Benedict heads a church that is supposed to be about doing what is right, even if it’s difficult, especially if it’s difficult.

Perhaps now, after hearing what he heard yesterday, he will begin, finally, to do it.

Margery Eagan’s radio show airs on 96.9 WTKK.

Article URL: http://www.bostonherald.com/news/opinion/columnists/view.bg?articleid=1087956positions, we think the bishops would stop acting like that. That’s the real problem.

Worcester Abuse Victims Dubious

Sunday, April 20, 2008

From the Worcester Telegram & Gazette, 4.20.2008.

Brought to my attention by my Worcester friend Dan Dick.

Thanks, Dan.

I have added yellow highlighting for emphasis.

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April 20. 2008 8:28AM

Abuse victims dubious

Pope’s apology called ‘empty’

By Thomas Caywood TELEGRAM & GAZETTE STAFF


WORCESTER—
Some local clergy abuse victims and Catholic activists yesterday dismissed Pope Benedict XVI’s historic apology for the priest abuse scandal, and his private meeting Thursday with a group of victims from Boston, as empty gestures.

“This is just, as far as I’m concerned, a dog and pony show,” said clergy abuse victim David Lewcon of Uxbridge. “It’s all deceptive. Too little too late. Staged.”

Mr. Lewcon successfully sued the Diocese of Worcester over abuse he suffered at the hands of convicted child molester Thomas H. Teczar, who has been stripped of his priestly duties and jailed in Texas.

“This has brought some of us together. I’ve heard from more victims in the last week or so than I have for years. You get those e-mails that say, ‘How are you handling this?’ ” Mr. Lewcon said. “I’ll be very happy when the pope goes home and starts cleaning his own house.”

Another Uxbridge victim of Mr. Teczar, George “Skip” Shea, said he was encouraged to hear the pope expressing regret over clergy abuse of children, but that he’s holding out for deeds to back up the words.

“Will they settle lawsuits for a decent rate? Will they stop fighting efforts to eliminate the statute of limitations on the sexual abuse of children? Will they support those efforts? Those are the types of steps I want to see,” Mr. Shea said.

“My hope is that I’ll see that action,” he added, “but my fear is that he’ll get on the plane, and people will say, ‘OK, it’s over now.’ ”

The pope met with five victims for about 25 minutes Thursday afternoon in Washington, D.C. The meeting was kept secret until it was over.

Local victims and clergy abuse victim advocates said the participants in the secret meeting were picked by Boston Cardinal Sean P. O’Malley, and that no victims from Central Massachusetts were asked to participate.

“We’re always hopeful that every time there’s additional recognition of the harm that’s been done that, hopefully, it will help move people toward healing,” said Raymond L. Delisle, a spokesman for the Diocese of Worcester.

Representatives of local Catholic lay groups critical of the church’s handling of pedophile priests said they don’t share the diocese’s sense of hope.

“The model for dealing with the abuse crisis will not really change,” said Daniel Dick, a spokesman for Worcester Voice of the Faithful. “Bishops will continue to do as they please. The laity — the victims, in particular — have no way of being confident the system will change as to how victims are treated.”

Worcester Voice founder Mary Jean was equally skeptical that the pope’s apology would be a catalyst for change and healing among local victims — and those estranged from the Roman Catholic Church by the scandal.

“His words continue to ring empty when looked at from the perspective of the Worcester Diocese’s actions against those who were victims,” said Ms. Jean, a Leominster resident.

Mr. Lewcon, who now works with fellow clergy abuse victims, said that while people are expressing sorrow for the abuse and the way it was handled by the Vatican, church lawyers are aggressively fighting victims in court and depositions.

“When a clergy abuse victim comes forward, they don’t even know what they’re in for. They have what I call ‘pit bull, hired-gun attorneys,’ and they just victimize you again,” he said.

Mr. Dick of the local chapter of the Voice of the Faithful said some victims he has spoken to welcomed the pope’s apology.

“That’s a great step forward,” he said. “But people here are saying that nothing is going to change.”

Mr. Delisle, the diocesan spokesman, said the diocese understands the pain it has caused victims, and that some simply aren’t ready, and may never be ready, to return to the church.

“Not everyone is in the same place. There are some people moving forward with healing, and others who are not. Some people want to work with the church. Others do not,” he said. “There are others for whom the hurt is so great, they can’t work with us now. The best we can do is work with those who are willing and be ready to work with the others when they’re ready.”

Contact Thomas Caywood by e-mail at tcaywood@telegram.com.

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Reader Comments

I want to give a big thanks to Dan Dick of Voice of the Faithful and the survivors in the Worcester Diocese who are doing great work to help Catholics get through this crisis and learn what really happened and how to keep it from happening again. I am not a survivor of sexual abuse but to those who criticize, I would like you to contemplate for a moment what it must be like to be 8 or 9-year-old and to be anally raped or think of a little girl who goes to first penance and is sexually violated and raped during the sacrament. What of those in our own area who were raped on altars, in sacristies and in our holy sanctuaries? Then think of what it must be like for those who hide and pretend nothing happened.

-A Grateful Catholic

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Years ago when victims first came forward most did not desire a battle with the Church. Concerned parents often went to the Bishop for resolve and spiritual insight on how to deal with a very confusing situation but were usually given empty words. Many later found out the abusing priest was transfered to another parish. Most did not realize that Cannon law instructs officials a to avoid Church related scandals at all cost.I feel the Catholic faithful are also victims of this scandal but many don’t relate to that label since many are still heavily influenced by their spiritual leaders incouragement of a hopeful future. Many are beginning to think for themselves and not accepting everything their spiritual leaders say.I think the issue with victims is not as much the pain they suffered from their abuse and how it compromised their life but by the way the Church (and especially the Worcester Diocese) re-victimized them during litigation with severe and dehumanizing legal strategies and manipulations.

This article calls it the way it is. It’s just too dark of a story to shed much light on.

-Dave Lewcon

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Show them some money and they’ll feel better. My guess is that there is no pain money can’t heal.

-abused, now greedy

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I have supported VOTF for several years now but feel that Mr. Dick’s stubborness in this moment makes me question whether I should continue to support this organization. I too want real change in the church but I can’t afford the kind of continual pessism that the contributors to this article have. T and G, how about some balanced reporting. I’m sure it wouldn’t have been too hard to track down some people who are victims or knew victims who are feeling a little bit more hopeful after the pope’s first steps to address this issue in the U.S.. The T and G usually does a better job than this. This kind of negative senssationalism is better left to ‘rag’ newspapers.

-Turned Off

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SNAP Hands Out Fliers to Catholics Blasting ‘Backsliding Bishops’

Sunday, April 20, 2008

From the SNAP website, 4.20.2008.

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The Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests


SNAP Press Release
Giving Voice to Victims

For Immediate Release:
Sunday, April 20th

For More Information:
David Clohessy 314 566 9790, Peter Isely 414 429 7259, Joelle Casteix 949 322 7434, Barbara Dorris 314 503 0003

Victims to hand fliers to Catholics blasting ‘backsliding bishops’

Pope admits ‘badly handled’ crisis, but US officials deny & backpedal

Group attacks Vatican’s top American Cardinal & Long Island prelate

The two undercut Pontiff’s message of hope and reconciliation, SNAP says

Their ‘insensitive denials’ only ‘rub salt into wounds’ of victims & Catholics

Self help group also asks parishioners to invite victims to speak in churches

What:
As parishioners leave & enter mass (and pedestrians walk by), clergy sex abuse victims will hand out fliers urging them to

– follow the Pope’s example and invite victims to speak in their churches, and

– speak out against two high-ranking church officials whose recent remarks ‘undercut’ the Pope by denying or minimizing US bishops’ wrongdoing in child sex cases

When:
TODAY, Sunday, April 20, from 9:30 a.m. and 11:30 p.m.

Where:
On sidewalk outside St. Patrick’s Cathedral on Fifth Avenue in Manhattan

Who:
Four-six clergy abuse survivors who are members of a support group called SNAP, Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests (SNAPnetwork.org), including

Why:

Earlier this week, the Pope met with victims and urged each Catholic to ‘do what you can to foster healing and reconciliation, and to assist those who have been hurt.’ For many victims, speaking before Catholic groups about their experiences is very healing. SNAP hopes more Catholics will be moved by the Pontiff’s remarks this week and will invite victims to give talks at parishes.

Earlier this week, the Pope candidly admitted that the scandal has been “sometimes very badly handled” by US bishops. Yet on Friday, a top Vatican official, Cardinal William Levada, largely blamed the crisis on therapists who allegedly gave bishops bad advice about predator priests. Levada denied that there’s a “broad base of bishops guilty of aiding and abetting pedophiles.”

http://www.commonwealmagazine.org/blog/?p=1902

Considerable evidence suggests otherwise, as do recent survey results that show substantial and growing dissatisfaction by Catholics over the US hierarchy’s cover ups. (A lengthy Dallas Morning News investigation – published on June 12, 2002 – found that 2/3 of all US bishops quietly shuffled predators around, despite proof that they had molested kids.)

Levada is the former archbishop of San Francisco.

And in a Newsday interview yesterday, Rockville Centre Bishop William Murphy made similarly deceptive comments, saying “there may have been some bishops that mishandled” the crisis. Murphy, who was a close and controversial associate of Boston’s severely discredited Cardinal Bernard Law, who resigned over the crisis. Murphy once said he should have been ‘less quick to judge’ lay Catholics who’ve criticized him, but has rarely admitted his reckless and secretive decisions regarding predator priests in Boston or on Long Island.

http://www.newsday.com/news/local/newyork/ny-limurp0419,0,1374071.story

Contact:
David Clohessy 314 566 9790
Peter Isely 414 429 7259
Joelle Casteix 949 322 7434
Barbara Dorris 314 503 0003

The Story of “Closed” St. James Parish in Kansas, Ohio

Sunday, April 20, 2008

Received via email from Steve Johnson, 4.19.2008.

Here’s a great story about the parishioners of a small, rural Kansas, Ohio, church, which was closed by the bishop of Toledo, who are fighting the good fight in the courts of the State of Ohio to exert parishioner ownership rights. A favorable ruling for the St. James parish community could have far reaching legal ramifications in Ohio and eventually throughout the country.

If the plight of these parishioners resonates with you, consider joining me in donating to their cause.

The people of St. James parish are holding a drive to raise $50,000 in 10 days. If you feel moved to help, please go to www.stjameskansas.org , fill out the form on the home page, and make a pledge.

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The St. James Parish (Kansas, Ohio) Story:

On the evening of April 21st, 2005, St. James was still what it had always been; busy, thriving, active, engaged, humble, unassuming, duty bound, cared for, and very much needed. It was everything that a parish needs to be in order to be strong, and to be an asset to the Toledo Diocese and its bishop, Leonard Paul Blair. But it was much more than that. It was also everything that a community needs a parish to be, in order to live. And it had just been given a death sentence.

St James knew what a mistake it would be to close this vibrant and thriving parish. On this evening, parishioners determined to be a church community, 24 hrs a day, 7 days a week. For every hour of every day, someone would be in the parish, praying to Mary with a rosary made from the lumber of the old cross atop the bell tower to spare our church from closure. What began that evening was a journey together that has deepened our faith, enriched our community, and broadened our view of the body of Christ, and the role that we all play in it. The final Mass took place on June 26th, 2005. The following Sunday, a weekly tradition that is upheld to this day began when the St. James community gathered for a prayer service.

Fast forward to January, 2006. Since May 1st of the previous year, a parishioner had been inside St. James praying for the church to be saved. A group of St. James parishioners were sitting in a conference room in the diocesan offices on Spielbusch Ave in Toledo, to make our case to Bishop Blair. Both parties wanted a resolution to this matter, but our attempts to foster the dialogue so desperately needed were met with talking points.

“Bishop, if you want us to move on, would you mind telling us which locations will be closed in the near future; because we don’t care to go through this ever again.”

“Neither do I” he replied. “This has been very difficult for me,” he continued and went on to chastise us for “clinging to something that doesn’t exist.” Needless to say, this meeting ended in a stalemate.

On Monday, March 6th, 2006; the gloves came off…literally. The bishop was out of town that week, and the diocese hired a new employee that morning. A woman who was quietly engaged in prayer didn’t think much of it when she heard the doors to the sanctuary open behind her. People did come and go periodically throughout the day. But this person wasn’t here to relieve her at the end of her shift, he was here to relieve us all for good.

“YOU HAVE TO LEAVE, NOW” he said.

“I’m not going anywhere,” she replied.

He regarded her dismissively while he stomped over to where the votive candles were lit by fellow vigil participants, and obnoxiously blew them out. Now she knew something was definitely wrong.

“You are NOT supposed to do that in a church!”

She went to a stand up front where there was a phone. He proceeded toward her quickly, and pulled the plug from the wall. Now she was frightened for her safety. What kind of a person comes in to a church and does this? She wasn’t going to find out what he would do next. With that, the doors were barred, and “Private Property” signs were placed intermittently around the church and parish house exterior. After 10 months and 5 days, the prayer vigil had ended.

Bishop Blair thought the St. James community would roll over and go away quietly when faced with bully tactics like this. He doesn’t know this parish very well, and the community resolved that we should help him to become better acquainted. With some legal assistance, the parish discovered that there was a strong argument to be made in court that the St. James community still owned the parish property. One of the legal briefs filed on behalf of St. James reads as follows:

In the case at bar, the parish of Kansas St. James held the beneficial interest in the property until it was abolished by Defendants. Then, the beneficial interests went to the Plaintiffs. Plaintiffs have not and do not challenge the Bishop’s right to create and abolish parishes. But to suggest that the Bishop holds property in trust – but for a body of beneficiaries that he can create or abolish at will – flies in the face of Ohio law. Defendants’ argument is no different than suggesting that a large bank trustee serving many different trusts can allocate assets from one beneficiary to another at any time. The beneficial interest in the trust holding the property of Kansas St. James belongs to the Plaintiffs and those who would associate with them in worship, not to the Defendants. Plaintiffs seek nothing more than a trustee who will afford them the beneficial interest in the church property that they are entitled to.

On this premise, St. James filed suit in the Seneca County Court of Common Pleas. On March 31st, 2008, St. James motion for summary judgment was denied in this case, but there are arguments that need to flushed out before we can close the book on this story; and we need your help to mount an appeal.

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Fundraiser day 7:

Our fundraiser was featured in the following Toledo Blade article. To date, $7,690 has been pledged. 3 days remain and it is now time to pull out all of the stops.

This is a vitally important principle that St. James is fighting for. Imagine if the trustee of a large bank decreed your accounts to be closed and the assets contained within them distributed to other peoples’ accounts however this trustee sees fit. That would not be tolerated, but that is essentially how parish closings were handled in the Toledo Diocese in 2005. If it were anybody but a bishop doing this, people would not stand for it. Another interesting thing to note about this is that bishops tend to define this issue differently depending on the situation. In the Portland Oregon Archdiocese, Archbishop Vlazny just signed the parish property deeds over to the parishes. Each parish there will be reorganized into a nonprofit corporation.

St. James became involved in this legal battle because the folks here feel very strongly that they are the owners of the parish. There are sound legal arguments that bishops are trustees who must administer the property for the benefit of local parishioners. But to the folks here, it goes much deeper than legal speak. They have ancestors who played a big part in creating the parish; people who contributed their life’s work to building it up and improving it during the time they were there, and they passed that tradition down through several generations of their family history. There is an alter inside the building now that was built by a family who lives in this community. When wheelchair access was needed, it was not a diocesan contractor who did the work, it was the folks who lived here that rolled up their sleeves and built it. These are things that were contributed by this community for all who are or wish to be a part of this community. What the diocese wants to do with these things does not align with the spirit of how they came into existence.

Up until this point the parishioners have shouldered the bulk of the financial burden for this, spending roughly $80,000 of their own hard earned money to seek justice for all parishes like St. James. In addition to this, St. James also bore the burden of paying for the legal defense of the diocese in the amount of $44,990; which the Toledo Diocese withdrew from the St. James diocesan account to pay the firm of Shumaker, Loop & Kendrick for their defense. Click to read: toledoblade.com — Use of funds irks former parishioners

St. James is offering parishioners around the country an opportunity to take ownership of this case as it can benefit them as well. Without this investment, it is unlikely that St. James can bear the financial burden of taking this as far as it will need to go. There is still a window of opportunity to act.

The people of St. James parish are holding a drive to raise $50,000 in 10 days. If you feel moved to help, please go to www.stjameskansas.org , fill out the form on the home page, and make a pledge.